in his time

Over the years, i have learnt that trusting God is the smartest thing i can do.
Really, truly, seriously. why would i lie to you?
And i'm talking about anything. whether it is about school, family, friends and all the other things that this cracked up world throws at us at ttimes. it is all part of God's marvelous plan.
For alot of people (including me, sometimes) it's hard to believe. i mean, how can it be God's plan for us to suffer? we think we are dying, hopeless and horribly screwed for all eternity. But the truth is, we aren't looking at things from God's point of view. we are so closed-minded and small, how could we possibly see the big picture? Take this from a small girl who misses out half of everything that happens around her because she can't see past the person in front of her. Yeah, it hurts. but as i hear someone say, "what doesn't kill you will make you stronger". Although we feel that it is the end of the world, the truth is, it's the beginning of a new chapter in our lives. we just have to get courage to move on and flip the page, to see what's on the other side.
I see so many of my friends fall in love and fall hard beccause the opposite person doesn't feel the same way. And all i can do is make sympathetic noises and try to see things from their point of view, and remember how it felt to feel rejected. it's not that i don't understand, but the truth is, i do understand, and that makes me all the more anxious and impatient to peresuade them that it isn't the end. life doesn't end when someone rejects you. Because it simply means that the person isn't ready for you, or that you weren't meant to be together. All we need is a little time, and a little heartache to make us stronger, and make us more mature. each time our heart is broken, it mends itself and grows a little, and in the process develops parts of the heart muscle that we never needed. heartbreak is character-moulding, and without it, we wouldn't be able to bear the future burden of true love, coupled in with all the sacrifices that you will have to make to accomodate it. that's what i've learnt, from studying all the people around me, and from studying myself. So we shouldn't try to bury the feelings, nor should we cling on to a love already fast evaporating. The wisest thing i've ever done is to "let go and let God", my personal belief is that if two people are meant to be, they will be. Hey, we are afterall referring to the God who led Rebecca to the well to draw water and the God who brought Moses to a desert tribe where he met his future wife. I'm not asking you to plan SO far ahead. I'm just saying that while you cry your eyes out over someone, don't give up on love, and most certainly DO NOT give up on GOD! because God sees the perfect happy ending in his mind, although you don't, and it is he that will guide you to it.
so trust him.